Stress Less About Cleaning

Stress Less About CleaningI’ve always wished I was the type of person who vents out stress or anger by cleaning. Imagine getting anxious over the house not being spic and span and so you clean the house to relieve that stress! Alas, I’m not. The more stressed I get, the more I shut down, which means more stuff piles up, which leads to greater stress. It’s a not so fun merry-go-round. I vow, though, that 2016 is the year that I will keep a clean house AND stress less while doing it.

I do transcription work from home, am raising a puppy, and play chauffeur to my son who doesn’t have his driver’s license yet (also there’s the distraction of Netflix). All of those things are more important to me than cleaning, but that doesn’t mean that I don’t feel guilty and anxious when I am busy with other priorities and the house doesn’t look as nice as I’d like. Here are some tips that I’m going to follow to help me stress less about cleaning this year, and I hope they can help you too.



  1. The 15 minute rule really does work. You would be surprised by how much you can accomplish in 15 minutes. Do your work, play with your kids, watch TV, whatever, for a certain amount of time. Then clean for 15 minute increments in between that. Have a plan for what you want to do and do it for 15 minutes and then go back to your original activity. Do this all day long if it works, or let those 15 minutes turn into an hour if you get into a groove. The important thing is to use timers so that you don’t get to say just one more commercial or 10 more minutes. Let the timer be your boss.
  2. Decide what your hot spot is. What area in your house makes you the craziest when it isn’t clean? For me, it’s the kitchen. Nothing will stress me out more than dirty dishes or a dirty counter. Some people need their bathroom to sparkle, some can’t stand to go to bed in a messy bedroom. Whatever yours is, make that area your priority. Clean your hot spot first in the day and then no matter what else you do or don’t have time to do, you’ll feel a little better.
  3. Put things away. Clutter looks messy, there’s just no way around it. Compare a kitchen counter full of gadgets and one that is empty and the empty one looks 10 times cleaner. Take those few extra minutes whenever you use something to find a spot to stash it, and give in to the few extra minutes of fishing it out when you’re ready to use it again. The more stuff you can put away in between uses, the more together your house will look.
  4. Do one thing before bed. Even if it’s the end of the night and the last thing you want to do is a chore, do something that will make your morning better. It might be washing dishes or taking out the trash or just throwing away that day’s junk mail. Whatever it is, it will be one thing less you have to do the next day and that makes for a happier morning.
  5. Don’t stress the mess. Didn’t get around to sweeping the living room because you were talking to Mom on the phone? Remind yourself that you were spending time doing something meaningful with someone you love, and that is so much more important than one skipped chore. Even if your something meaningful was spending all day reading a book you couldn’t put down, so what. Don’t compare you, yourself, your home or what you accomplish to anyone else. Sit back, relax with a glass of wine, and remind yourself that you can always start over with tip #1 tomorrow.

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  • Cari

    Love these tips! Cleaning is definitely my least favorite thing.

  • Kimberly Cook

    I feel exactly the same way! I work from home too and I’m always taking a kid somewhere and honestly, some days I’m just doing things I want to do and just do not want to clean. I make sure I get a load of laundry done and dishes done, but I do the 15 minute thing when I’m working on ebay or binging netflix, or if I’m watching my dvr shows, I clean on the commercial breaks. I don’t always get as much done as I’d like, but I don’t want to clean all day either!

  • Diana

    I use that 15 minute rule and it has really helped me. I listen to audiobooks pretty much all the time so I’ll set my timer to turn off the book at the 15 minute mark. Talk about motivation when you hit a good part! good luck on your stress reducing journey!

  • Tammy Sullivan

    The 15 minute rule really does work. My biggest pet peeve is dishes in the sink and dirty counter. You are absolutely right about keeping the counter cleared off! That one little thing makes the whole room look cleaner! I try to do my dishes every night that way I don’t wake up feeling totally overwhelmed before I even have my coffee!

  • Amy

    I have certain things on my every week day list like wipe down the bathroom sinks and the toilet. Wipe down the kitchen counters and table vacuum the living room etc. It gives me a place to start in each room. Of course sometimes the tv ends up very dusty because I never get to dusting it but as long as certain things are clean I try not to stress

    • HeavenLeigh123

      Dusting is the bane of my existence. My stuff always looks dusty because as soon as I dust it gets dusty again and I get fed up with it. So it usually winds up way at the bottom of my list lol.

  • Beck Jones

    Great tips that I am definitely going to start using right away! After the last surgery j can use all the tips I can get lol

  • Dawn

    I do this same thing and it works! Mine is more like 10 min increments though lol

  • Amber Lee

    I am one of the ticked off cleaners lol. If you make me mad you can usually find me cleaning the kitchen while muttering under my breath like the little ugly guy from the lord of the rings. If I a not mad I take my time and put my music on and just do what I can at my pace. Thank God it takes a lot to make me mad lol.

  • Barb

    Sounds like me!! If the kitchen is messy the whole house is trashed. if the kitchen is cleaned up the rest of the house always looks better. The kitchen makes me mad if it gets dirty! lol I stress and stress over that.

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  • These are such great tips! I hate cleaning but the 15 minute rule really DOES work. Sometimes I wish I was one of those people that got stressed out when the house was a mess. I’d be so skinny from cleaning all day lol.

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  • Great tips! I’ve also always wished I was the type of person who cleans when stressed. That would be so helpful! Alas, I hate cleaning :/


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